Preggers and need to vent a bit...........?

Ok so for anyone who wants to listen and give me some insight bc im starting to lose my cool with this topic. Its my sister in law. shes starting to piss me off, so heres a bit of the story i am 27 years old i have a great husband and a 3 year old 1 year old and one who is going to arrive in april. so as you can imagine life is pretty crazy around here. anyways my sister in law also had one baby actually on the same day my 1 year old came so their the exact same age. that alone is aggravating, their fist birthday was a fight just to get the day straight and what i wanted to do and what she was doing. i want them to have separate birthdays so does she as well. so anyways ive been able to handle her before she had a kid bc she had no idea how much life changes now she makes me nuts she still goes on how her birth was more painful bc she had a c section and i delivered naturally although i had 4 stitches in my crotch. i still do realize that yes the healing time is a bit longer with c section, but she goes on how the birth was EASY for me really hunny my first labour was 26 hours long my second hurt like hell for 16 hours and i got stitches both times. then on top of this she has to EVERTIME she comes here mention that its EASY for me bc my youngest doesn't cry and shes good, lol just bc shes a bit more easy going then her son doesn't mean i got my work cut out for me i got a very demanding 3 year old girl and a saucy 1 year old and god knows what our little guy will be like. she is always saying how difficult it is for her bc she goes to school ONE day a week like come on sweetie, you live in a 1 floor apt (no stairs or much dangers) we live in a 3400 sq foot home my kids get lost. lol YOU HAVE 1 CHILD !!! trust me i know its hard with one but dont tell me its easy for me i have 2 soon to be three one will be off to school i have to then lug three kids to school and back she has no clue her son hasn't even made it to the terrible twos or not to mention the even more terrible threes lol. im just tired of her saying that its easy for me like really i feel like telling her to come switch with me for a day. i see her she can take naps still during the day she puts him in his stroller very easily and goes outside or does laundry its not that hard with one. i was never one for this Competition thing but geez i dont like her telling me and everyone how difficult it is for her its like she has it so freaking hard. not to mention my husband works 13 hour days sometimes hers is gone from 9-5 so hes home to help her in the evening im here by myself with my kids and a big ol belly to deal with god im just annoyed.