If you could have another conversation with a deceased loved one, what would it be about?

I would talk to my MOM and let her know that I doing my best to care for HER granddaughters. After they were critical from a house fire on 12/26/06, I was devastated. I wished my mom was alive to help me through it, for i questionned alot about why it happened. And one day when I was outside the hospital, I asked myself, "What would my mother do in this situation?" Immediately, I felt like I heard her response..............."take care of my granddaughters and stop asking God so many **** questions!" And she would have said those EXACT words! =)